Our furbabies

So I realized that I did not share a couple of things that I love about living in Waipiʻo now. Pets!! We have a yard and bought a couple of puppies as soon as we moved a couple years ago.

Below the babies just got home and were about ten weeks old.

Brand new furbabies, Pō (night) and Lā (day).

They obviously have grown up a lot since then and are nine and ten pounds respectively. Pō has a lot of white hairs that make her look distinguished and Lā is still as charming as ever.

We never had dogs so we went out to Petco for training courses. It was good because it taught us a lot in terms of how we needed to act and the level of consistency and praise we should be giving to them to positively reinforce the training. It worked, we still have to work on getting their attention, especially when they see their friends from the park.

Pō and Lā today.

Princess Pō (night)
Lord Lā (day).

And as an added bonus, we also received a cute kitty cat to grow up with them, she came with the name Onyx and it stuck.

Such a full house of fur.

Silent improv scene revisited

Aloha mai kākou.

So I am constantly trying to figure out how I want to use this. Right now, I am going to make it my depository for information on things improv that I have done throughout the years and do not want to forget.

June 2019:

Squire and I had a couple of improv things. We had a board meeting for our nonprofit, did a short scene for a night of improv to fundraise for Garrick Paikai, and ended the month with a lunch with his leadership cohort that is also interested in improvisation to build leadership skills.

Board meeting: It was the annual board meeting but of interest we talked about some of the new initiatives we wanted to develop. Jay, Squire, and I are all working on curriculum offerings for our target groups, students, teachers, and businesses.

Short improv scene: Squire and I had a rare chance to improvise together on stage. Although people think the opposite, we really do not get to do it much. The directive for the evening was to do “The Marty.” Multiple pairs doing five minute scenes in real time that are relationship driven, no effects. We decided to make ours a mini-tribute to OTS and did a HUSH-inspired silent scene. Since we decided not to talk, we had to rely on eye contact and the actions and reactions of the other. I am happy to say that we made the most of the relationship because we did not have the option to get mired down in creating business that did not add to our interactions with each other. We had five minutes but edited out at 4:10 somewhat abruptly. In retrospect, we should have let some of the moments land and in a weird way take our time with it. In the scene, Squire threw his cell phone away and when I went to find it, I knew exactly where it was, which I probably wouldn’t have. I should have taken the moment to “find” it. Also, I got a little emotional at the end but if we played it right, we should have sat back down as we were standing on two blocks and looked back out at the view we established. That would have been a great button. Of course, part of me was worried about the time but we obviously had enough time left. Garrick liked it, he made a kakegoe (shout or call) that we were pleasantly surprised to hear, “Mattemashita!” This made it all worth it for us, we went in with the right mindset and did something for the honoree.

I just wanted to make sure that I kept note of it for future reference, if we ever want to look at doing more improv in this way.

Monica~!

Government Shutdown

So, Squire works for TSA at HNL and we are impacted by his not receiving a paycheck. Mostly because we need to use our line and don’t know when he will receive his back pay for the work that he is doing now. It will become stressful if this goes on too long.

Things that I have enjoyed during this stressful time have been:

  1. The amount of transportation officers that are going in every day even though they are not getting paid and don’t know when the longest shutdown in history will end.
  2. The support we are getting from friends and family.
  3. The more congenial nature of the passengers that my husband has to interact with to ensure that he is doing his job to keep all travelers through HNL safe and secure.

Many of the people at his work are still showing up after over three weeks of working without being duly compensated.

Many of our friends and family at my workplace and in our sphere have reached out to us both to extend any help that they can.

People are thanking them at the checkpoint for being there and doing their job.

Hopefully this won’t last too much longer as we are placing American lives and their very real circumstances at the mercy of spontaneous and poorly planned actions that suit vanity and divisive ideology.

Improv Workshop at Kumu Kahua Theatre

Squire and I are going to be putting on an auditioning workshop at Kumu Kahua Theatre in the next month.

It should be a blast mostly because we are going to work it around some input that we received from directors in the community. It actually made our job a little easier.

We are going to theme out our 8 sessions over four weekends, in order, 1) playing without fear, building trust and having fun, 2) movement, 3) voice, and 4) acting.

WHAT: Improvisation Workshop taught by Monica and Squire Coldwell

IMPROV FOCUS: Audition skills, confidence, working with others, being willing to let go of your fears, and preparing you to sing, dance, and act your way through your next audition.

WHERE: Kumu Kahua Theatre, 46 Merchant St, Honolulu, HI

WHEN: Consecutive Saturday and Sunday mornings, January 19 – February 10

COST: $120

INFO and REGISTRATION: 808-536-4222, KumuKahuaTheatreOM@gmail.com

We will see if people show up.

Mahalo,
Monica~

What I did this summer …

Aloha,

So I wanted to share about one of the highlights this summer. Squire and I directed a show at Kumu Kahua Theatre. It was special for many reasons, 1) because it was the first show the both of us have worked on together in a long time, 2) it was at Kumu one of our “homes,” and 3) our lives are considerably different from the other times we’ve been this involved in a show.

Normally, I would have wanted to give you a blow by blow of the process while we were doing it but it went by so fast.

First off, we were going to do an improv workshop but Donna Blanchard floated this idea of directing a show at Kumu based on submissions they had received around the 38 minutes around Hawaiʻi received a false missile alert of an inbound ballistic missile.

The process for us was, we looked at and chose the pieces we were going to put in the show based on a submission call out that Kumu had made a week after the event, had auditions, and jumped straight into three solid weeks of rehearsals before we had to have our cast ready to act and improvise in front of an audience for another three weeks of shows.

Challenges were, not everyone had acting experience or improv experience, we had a short time to do both, and we had to teach everyone how to improvise in the style that we thought would serve the show the best.

The overall concept of the show was to have the actors perform, based on what we could do in such a short period, the most stage ready pieces in the first act, and use those pieces to make the audience comfortable enough to share their own stories in the second act. We tried to set up the show as naturally as possible, having the actors pretend to be audience members, breaking the fourth wall whenever we could by using the whole space, having moments of interaction between the cast, the crew, and the audience, and having the our tech and actors exchange places to show that everyone really is a part of the show.

This worked out the way we had envisioned it, we had no shortage of people volunteering their stories and all types of people willing to do it. We weren’t being overly cocky but because of what we had experienced so far through auditions and talking to others about their experiences we knew that people had stories and they were all unique. The odds were in our favor that people would be willing to share.

I have so many stories based on the people in the audience and what we learned about Hawai’i and the people that make up this wonderful place. The best part of the experience was getting to hear more stories and feel the connection between the performers and the people that came to the show. But delving it this subject would definitely take a really long time.

So I’d like to end with some general thoughts, although it was a terrible 38 minutes to live through, we all lived through it together and came out unscathed at the end, how lucky is that. Many people realized this and sought out what really mattered to them. Hawai’i is a very special place and what really highlights that, and our fragility, is what makes us pretty amazing and can easily brings us together. Squire and I also knew that this show was going to be special because of how different and unique each of the experiences people had were and continued to be during the run of shows. I may not remember every single line of every story shared in the second act for the shows that we were able to watch, but I remember every single person who shared, their story, how they felt, and how it made me feel with them letting us in and being a part of our show.

Mahalo,

Monica~

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Board and Stone

So it has been a while … good thing this wasnʻt one of my new year’s resolutions ….

But I wanted to share a couple of things.

So I had a great work environment experience in the last couple of years. I was able to work as close to nature as I have been in a very long time. I enjoyed it a lot, the peace I felt looking out my window was never overestimated. It was hard to be stressed there but it got harder to look out the window and not realize that something was missing.

I realized that I didn’t belong there anymore though and really thought carefully about what I wanted my next step to be. I wanted to be in a place that fed what I felt there on a deeper level. I loved being around nature but I wanted to feel it in my DNA which meant I had to also embrace aspects of myself and my ethnicity. Which led me to my current job and I don’t regret it one bit.

Back story aside, to the board and stone. We are taking a 11 week class with Keiki O Ka Aina and Kamehameha Schools taught by Earl Kawaʻa. It is awesome. Star Advertiser Article “Hawaiian educator teaches how to craft poi ponders, boards

So it has been a week in, we met last Thursday to get a debrief of what the Saturday huakaʻi (field trip) would be about. Then on that Saturday we were in Punaluʻu for the day, finding and cutting down hau sticks to make our koʻi (adze) and then stripping the bark and facing it, then at the stream finding our stones to create our pohaku (poi pounders), and picking a slab of monkey pod for us to use as our papa (board).

I am so sore now. To make the koʻi for removing the bark of the papa we had to tie bike tire rubber around the hau stick to keep the blade in place, between trying to keep it in place and continuously rewrapping it when it slips off. I now realize that I am in zero shape and have an ocd quality about myself. You see, they scored the boards for us and now that I see the indention marks, I have been compulsively trying to reach them with my koʻi. Until today, I think I got in at least half an hour but, “Oh boy.” I am done. Tomorrow will be a day of rest, hopefully I wonʻt regret it when we get to start on the pohaku (stone).

My tired muscles aside, I donʻt want to give you the impression that I am not enjoying myself. I have to say that I am very excited about this whole process and the work that we are doing for it. Which is why I want to share the photos with you

Board after a day one work

Board back, to give you an idea of the grain

Board after day two work

The koʻi.

Our ʻalā stones for the pohaku

Supplies to make the koʻi.

 

 

Happy New Year Resolutions

Happy 2017!

So this year I tried to make a resolution in advance. And so far it is working ….

Tips:

  1. Make your new year resolution in advance of the new year.
  2. Start your new resolution before the new year actually begins.
  3. Start small, e.g., if it is to exercise, make it 5-15 minutes a day.
  4. Give yourself a break off point or a deadline, like 30 days.
  5. Keep track, find some way of logging your progress.
  6. Donʻt push yourself to do more and allow yourself to do less.

So far so good.

Hawaii Pot Shabushabu House

Open til 2am, this place is much like the other hot pot places on the island, soup base, sauces and an assortment of items to cook. With the huge exception of single-serving pots and a conveyor belt counter seating area where you are able to pick your own veggies, noodles, and a few other morsels. Meat is on order and it is buffet all-you-can eat. For those that don’t want to do a hot pot there are a few other items to order on the menu.

John Oliver – 2016 …. This is Not Normal.

I loved this episode of Last Week Tonight with John Oliver and think I found a way to spend the next few years.

Favorite quote, “Hindsight is 2020.”

Things to make sure you are ready to do starting now:

  • Monitor Legislation
  • Vote

 

Places mentioned in his video (around the 19 minute mark) to actively support by giving money (recurring donations or in the name of a Trump voter close to you for holiday giving) or time:

Women’s Health and Rights –

  • Plannedparenthood.org
  • Reproductiverights.org

 

Climate Issues –

  • nrdc.org

 

Refugees –

  • refugeerights.org

 

Extra ideas –

  • naacpldf.org
  • thetrevorproject.org
  • maldef.org

 

Also support true journalistic endeavors –

  • The New York Times
  • The Washington Post
  • Local Newspapers
  • Public Radio

 

or donate to propublica.org (a non profit that does investigative journalism pieces).

Put your money where your mouth is, Democrats.

So I have been trying to figure out how to make the most of my anger at finding out that Republicans can stomach sexism and racism and it actually emboldens them to come out stronger and in more numbers. So I decided to go back to the electoral map just one more time.

Democratic Voting States:

  • Hawaii (HI)
  • Washington (WA)
  • Oregon (OR)
  • Nevada (NV)
  • California (CA)
  • Colorado (CO)
  • New Mexico (NM)
  • Minnesota (MN)
  • Illinois (IL)
  • Maine (ME)
  • Vermont (VT)
  • New York (NY)
  • Virginia (VA)
  • Massachusetts (MA)
  • Rhode Island (RI)
  • Connecticut (CT)
  • New Jersey (NJ)
  • Delaware (DE)
  • Maryland (MD)
  • District of Columbia (DC)
  • New Hampshire (NH)

 

These are the states that Democrats should put their money into through tourism and supporting any products that come out of these places. They are the ones that share Democratic values by the majority. Republican states shouldn’t be ones that you visit or buy in your local stores. Bottom line though, if you live in one of these blue states buy local, if you want to take a trip somewhere and know you will be spending dollars in that place, “Shop Blue” if you are a Democrat.

Refuse to support and travel to Republican majority states:

  • Alaska (AK)
  • Arizona (AZ)
  • Utah (UT)
  • Idaho (ID)
  • Montana (MT)
  • Wyoming (WY)
  • North Dakota (ND)
  • South Dakota (CD)
  • Nebraska (NE)
  • Kansas (KS)
  • Oklahoma (OK)
  • Texas (TX)
  • Iowa (IA)
  • Missouri (MO)
  • Arkansas (AR)
  • Louisiana (LA)
  • Mississippi (MS)
  • Alabama (AL)
  • Tennessee (TN)
  • Kentucky (KY)
  • Indiana (IN)
  • Wisconsin (WI)
  • Michigan (MI)
  • Ohio (OH)
  • Pennsylvania (PA)
  • West Virginia (WV)
  • North Carolina (NC)
  • South Carolina (SC)
  • Georgia (GA)
  • Florida (FL)

 

If you live in one of the red states and have Democratic values don’t shop local, buy and visit the states that you feel have the same ideals that you have, that women and minorities deserve to be truly equal and we want our future world to be a better place.

Note: I know that these are areas that are hurting already and it saddens me that it has to hurt more but these are the areas that the majority doesn’t see the connection between their mentality and their circumstances. I don’t think that we were trying not to see people for the way that they are, I think we were hoping that people were better than they were. It is now very evident that they aren’t and it’s time we show them why they need us too.

Updated: 11.13.16 with state abbreviations.